Sometimes it helps to get someone else’s opinion when it comes to matters of the heart. So here are some dating tips that I will share with you guys that will surely help you in finding that “The One” in your life.
What’s your intent in dating?
I strongly feel 90% of issues can be addressed by focusing on the purpose or intent.
What is your intent on dating? Are you after a long term relationship?
Are you after the fun?
Are you looking for “the one”?
Make sure your frame (thoughts) supports your intent (purpose or goal). Personally, I feel you should also let your intent be known. By letting it be known, you are allowing it to flow into your life more easily, effortlessly and honestly. It’s alright to date for fun, or date to find ‘the one’. Simply let your intent be known.
Clarifying what we want and actually writing it down will improve our chances of getting. The simple act of writing it down helps our unconscious and conscious work together in achieving what we want. Just by writing it down we can allow better results to flow into our lives.
Who do you really want?
Who do you actually want to date? Please, write out all the things you are looking for in a partner. If this is difficult for you, an alternative is to write out all the things you don’t want in a partner i.e. “I don’t want a partner that smokes.”
And then we can look for a positive re-Frame. ie.
“I don’t want a partner that smokes,” could change into, “I want a partner that cares for their lungs and has good health.”
What’s the most important trait you are looking for in a partner?
When we know what we want, we will be happy with ourselves. Hopefully by doing what we love and following our passions we have gotten the opportunity to meet someone that could be the one!
OK guys, totally honest, upfront, and direct to you.
“I, Adrian Cahill want a partner that enjoys living a healthy lifestyle. Ideally, she will be into or interested in Yoga and running. She must enjoy reading, ideally books that I also enjoy or intellectual books (originally I had read books, and not read crappy magazines). She must be supportive to my dreams and goals”.
Come on guys, I wrote it out and put it on the WWW. You can write it out too!
This post is Great. Thank you Adrian.
What I want most in a partner is understanding, patience,
and a lot of money! hehehe
Adrian, I did this after we talked, thank you very much for your time. I owe you dinner, pick a place.
No worries Tina. I’ll make you a deal. Dinner next week if you bring your dream map!
Dinner and dream map. Super. I better buy you some drinks too.. Ok if I get you drunk.
Dude, don’t you mean “I want a Yoga Instructor that reads Playboy Magazines rather than just looking at the pictures” 😉 hehe. Seriously though, cool article, very well written and so true.